No Butts About It

Ladies! Just because we are mothers does not mean it is time to succumb to the unfortunate trend of the "mom butt." If you find yourself feeling confused and wondering exactly what a mom butt is, do a quick Google image search and then come right back. I'll wait... 

Being a mom inevitably cuts down on the amount of time you can spend in the gym. I totally understand... dinner, homework, baths...but that doesn't mean you can't be just as sexy as your pre-mommy self. If you want a butt that makes you proud to flaunt a bikini bottom or a cute pair of skinny jeans, then I challenge you to incorporate the following exercises into your workouts. I wish building a strong derriere was as easy as increasing calorie intake in hopes that the extra fat would miraculously store itself back there... but junk in the trunk is exactly that... junk. 

Start off by setting realistic goals for what you hope to accomplish. Genetics play a role in how much you will actually be able to develop your butt (i.e. those with large gluteal muscle mass have the potential to build a real moneymaker). But no matter the size you start with, toned butts are always in season, while mom-butts will never be.

Your next step is to find motivation. Pinterest and Instagram are full of fitness accounts that you can follow (search using keywords like: 'fitgirls' or 'squats). Or find a fit chick who inspires you - like Paige Hathaway or Michelle Lewin - my personal favs, and follow their Youtube channels. Not into social media? Good ol' fashioned magazines like Shape and Fitness will do the trick just fine. Cut out pictures that inspire you and post them to a dream board (or simply post them on the fridge). Not only will these give you motivation and a goal to shoot for, these posts will show up as part of your daily routine (ahem...constant reminders to get your ass to the gym). 

Now for the hard part, working those gluteal muscles. As with any workout, for best results you will need to do a variety of exercises. What works best for one, won't necessarily work best for another. I suggest getting to know these basic gluteal exercises and working them into your weekly routine.  

  • Squats - WATCH VIDEO - This video shows you a variety of different squat types, with proper technique. (Remember, less than 1% of the human population looks as good as this fit chick, so focus less on her and more on the movements themselves).  
    • No gym? Substitute plyometric jump squats* or buy a weighted workout bar and place it on your shoulders for a more traditional barbell squat.* 
    • Start with low weight and do 3 sets, 8-12 repetitions per set. 


  • Lunges & Deadlifts - WATCH VIDEO - There are a variety of deadlifts and lunges you can do that vary greatly in complexity and intensity. Start easy and work your way into them. 
    • For beginners I would start with basic, walking lunges (hands on hips, knee straight over ankle) and lunge down and back the length of a basketball court. Ease into weighted lunges and curtsey lunges over time. 
    • Deadlifts are a little more advanced. You must practice proper form in order to reduce the strain on your back. For beginners, start with lighter dumbbells and practice straight-leg deadlifts. Work your way into more advanced (and heavier) deadlifts over time. 


  • Gluteal Kickbacks - WATCH VIDEO - One of my favorites and perfect for beginners and advanced ass kickers. Do these in a slow and controlled motion for maximum benefit. I like to do 4 sets, 10-12 repetitions per set. 


  • Step Ups - WATCH VIDEO - Another favorite because it suits all fitness levels. And as a bonus, you can easily do these at home. Select something steady you can use as your step and do a full kick-back* at the top (squeeze the glutes). For something more advanced, add in dumbbells for extra weight and/or a lunge at the bottom of the step. 3-4 sets, 10-12 repetitions per set.  


  • Stairstepper - For all you Cardio Queens out there, the stairstepper (or stairmill) is one of the best machines for working your butt. For advanced routines, trying skipping a step or adding in a glute kick-back.   

Remember that form is more important than the amount of weights and/or reps you can do for each exercise. Take the time to learn the movement properly. This will prevent injury AND give you maximum benefit for the amount of work you are putting in. As you get more comfortable and build up muscle mass over time, increase the weight and or number of reps per set. 

Center Photo: Paige Hathaway. Follow her on Instagram @paigehathaway for fitspiration.

In a nutshell, for that rock-hard butt, pay attention to minimizing fat storage by refining your calorie intake. Focus on foods high in protein and low in fats and carbohydrates. A little booty work can go a long ways. You can ward off that mom butt by putting in as little as 30 minutes 2-3 times a week.  

*If you are unfamiliar with the exercise, look it up on Youtube before beginning. There are thousands of how-to tutorials for these popular exercises!